The beginning of this disorder is thought to begin in early childhood when rejection by parents or peers can set the course for feelings of low self worth. But it should be noted that not all rejection is actual. Sometimes, thought processes and actions of the avoidant actually bring about the rejection. For example: A person with avoidant personality disorder may acquire an overbearing suspicion that a certain person doesn’t like them and will reject them. The sufferer will then avoid that particular person until the person thinks that the avoidant does not want them around. The slighted friend will then begin to avoid the sufferer who thinks it was all destined to begin with.

Here are some of the symptoms associated with avoidant personality disorder:

• Avoidance of people and work situations because of fear of rejection or criticism.
• Has to know he or she is well liked before getting involved with another person.
• Has restraint in relationships out of fear of being ridiculed or rejected.
• Intense fear of being criticized in social settings.
• Views oneself as inferior to others.
• Reluctant to take risks or do anything new because may result in embarrassment.

Avoidant personality disorder is extremely more prevalent among those with anxiety disorders than it is in the general public. In fact, it is believed that nearly 50 % of all people with an anxiety disorder have an avoidant disorder as well.