marriage              Reply to this Comment

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what can one do if their spouse blames them for everything

ABUSE              Reply to this Comment

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You are being abused, mentally, verbally, emotionally, and you can eiher get counsling or court papers.......it will get worse.

BLAME              Reply to this Comment

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FIRST YOU MUST LET GO AND LET GOD! TAKE A TRIP AWAY FOR YOUR CHOICE OF TIME AND SHOULD ANYTHING HAPPEN WHILE YOU'RE AWAY??? ASK HIM WHO IS TO BLAME??

Marriage Counseling              Reply to this Comment

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Please can Anyone tell me where I can call for my wife, 15 year old daughter and myself to find marriage counseling? We've been married 26 years. My wife just went through Menopause...has had an EXTREME hormone imbalance that has changed her so much that we don't know who she is anymore.... I Love her so much, but can't take much more!! Who can I call for help in Chautauqua County??

marriage              Reply to this Comment

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My partner and I had been together for almost 13 years,I don't trust him as much anymore,I found out that he own 35.000 on his credit card, he move out 3 weeks ago, we have a child, and is so hard for me.I just keep saying I have to be strong for my child, but sometime it doesn't work.

need help               Reply to this Comment

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my wife had a affair with my father then attempted sucide shes in treat ment but what about me im screaming in side i need help

aa              Reply to this Comment

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my husbands drinking is really affecting our family. how do i discuss getting counseling?

Drinking              Reply to this Comment

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How would you describe your current communication styles? Or to put the question another way, how do the two of discuss other issues? If your current communication styles are not effective, you may want to approach going to counseling to help with that issue. A second idea is for you to find a support group that helps families of alcoholics, call your local AA chapter. contact@discoverycounseling.org www.discoverycounseling.org

Daughters addiction              Reply to this Comment

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I have a 23yr old with a 3yr boy, she has been battling drugs since she was 16yrs old,in trouble with state of Ohio court and Missouri, now in treatment center again, she can not get past 6 months without getting back into it and in trouble with the law. She is currently in Talbert House, just by things that she says, she is just playing a game. I do not feel that she is serious about this at all. I am opting not to let her back into my home, she feels that as long as I am paying the roof over her head, clothing and food, she can do as she dam pleases. Her little boy is starting to remember things now, I have custody at the present time, she uses him to make me feel guilty. Any options

to daughters addiction              Reply to this Comment

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First you are right not to let her back into your home. I would make sure that the treatment center understands that she is not able to return home. At that point they should place her into a recovery or half-way house. Living there she will be forced to get a job, pay rent, and attend 12 step meetings. I would also suggest, if this hasn't been done already, that your daughter have a psychiatric evaluation to rule out the existence of any mental health issues. People with Bipolar disorder or depression have a high relapse rate. Your daughter should remain in some kind of ongoing care in conjunction with attending meetings. Also, it will be beneficial for family members to attend some treatment to learn how to set limits. People with addiction have a disease however part of that disease is lying and manipulating others. You need to learn how to deal with her emotional blackmail. As you know already, your daughter is not a bad person. She has a bad disease however she can make better choices that support her recovery. Also, I hope you understand that her addiction is not a reflection on you as a parent. Although she may try to tell you it is when she is trying to get what she wants. See help for your sake as well as for the sake of your grandchild.

Parent Abuse              Reply to this Comment

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I feel like I need a restraining order against my son. He is very taunting and verbally abusive. He likes to provoke and wont stop, leaving me with no choice to lock myself in my room or leave. He will actually do this to me at my employment as well. I am torn with the decision to kick him out or deal with it. Either way it wont stop.

Marriage              Reply to this Comment

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i love my husband but he abuses me an if i leave he wont let me have my daughter she is da only person i have left 2 live 4 my mom gave up on me my dad is only there now that im 19 an my husbands beats me i want custody of my daughter an 2 leave my husband but i dnt kno how he is controlling

love ur grand child lz              Reply to this Comment

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being a mother is not a choice if u open ur legs ur giving up ur rights 2 party u hav responsibilities now an if she cant grow up an b a parent keep ur grand child so u kno he or she id gettin raised da way there sposed 2 b an not bein exposed 2 other stuff dat will harm them in long run love ur grand baby an do whats right 4 them

parent abuse              Reply to this Comment

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u betta put him n jail or let a laywer talk 2 him dnt loose ur job ova him it wont b worth it cuz u wont have no way 2 support urself

You Need Help              Reply to this Comment

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I understand your pain.You should try counseling or talk therapy,it truly is good for the soul,and i suggest you start a journal that is for your eye's only.When you start to feel overwhelmed with emotion,write just write how you feel and it will help take some of the pressure of. Don't let them destroy your life when it is their shame.You did nothing wrong so be strong God Bless

Abusive Son              Reply to this Comment

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I beg of you to get help,I have two son's and am a grandmother now and i love my boys,would do anything for them,but abuse is unacceptable for any reason.Your son should be showing you respect not hurting you and i can tell you from experience,it will only get worse if he doesn't get help.Please help yourself,call the police if you have to because if he will hurt you,he's going to hurt someone else.Good luck and God Bless

autumn beauty              Reply to this Comment

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evangelhome was for me my recovery in to a patteren of relapes ,narcotics lead me to a detox ,releasing that it was my day in beauty my autumn entering caps a 12 steps for a challenge change for my daughter