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Depression SymptomsSymptoms of Depression
Feelings of sadness are proof that we are alive. Life is sometimes tough to deal with and there may be short periods of time when we barely recognize our own familiar emotional landscape. Clinical depression is quite different from these normal ups and downs. There may be a feeling of sadness but it has a different quality to it.
As we rollick through our lives, up one day, and down the next, our experience is often one of intense engagement. Pain is painful, sadness sad and anger, angry. We are feeling our feelings and we are still able to get up in the morning and fulfill the necessary tasks of life. The most significant symptom of severe depression is not just the sadness, more than that, it is the feeling of not being able to go on; normal functioning becomes impossible. There are varying degrees of depression. A major depression will be almost incapacitating in its severity while dysthymia, a chronic, long-term form of depression, though not as crippling and intense as a major depressive episode, will have the effect of taking the edge off life for several years. Whole lives can be lived in this way. Depression is thought to result from a combination of factors. Biologically there may be an imbalance of the neurotransmitters in the brain. Serotonin and nor-epinephrine are two primary brain messengers that are thought to be influential in the area of moods and emotion. Many anti-depressants today work by addressing imbalances in these brain chemicals. Environmental factors like death and loss may trigger a depressive episode especially if there is a hereditary predisposition. Physical changes in the body as a result of illness or accident may also cause depression. Women are twice as likely to suffer from depression as men are. This is thought to be a function of various hormonal factors together with menstrual cycles, pregnancy, childbirth and menopause, all of which impact the delicate hormonal balance that can trigger depression. Women who are depressed are more inclined to seek help than men are. This may be a reason why the suicide rate for men is four times as high as it is for women. Men do suffer from depression though they are much less likely to see a professional about it and doctors are more reluctant to imply that depression may be a problem. Women and men experience and react to depression differently too. Where women may be overtly weepy and sad, men will more likely be irritable and angry. Men tend to disguise their depression behind compulsive behaviors like over indulgence in drinks and drugs and excessive working. One of the more worrying aspects of depression is that it is insidious and very often hard to recognize, especially at the onset. It is hard to discern when appropriate feelings of sadness have crossed the line into depression. Despite this, or even because of this, it is imperative to know what depression looks like so that the appropriate treatment can be sought as soon as possible. Like most other illnesses, treatment is far more successful when applied as soon after the onset as is possible. Symptoms may be a random combination of any of the following: SYMPTOMS: EMOTIONAL * SADNESS - this is evident on an ongoing basis without relief. Each day dawns with a hollow sense of sadness. * LOSS OF INTEREST - This applies to all aspects of life. Existence feels like a flat line. Previous sources of enjoyments fail to yield any joy. * HOPELESSNESS - Feelings of despair and emptiness prevail regardless of external circumstances. * ANXIETY - This may not be the hyper, hair pulling kind. It may just be a powerful sense of being overwhelmed, stressed and nervous. * CONCENTRATION - It becomes more and more difficult to focus on anything. Everything becomes a blur and decisions become almost impossible. * WORTHLESSNESS - It becomes difficult to care for oneself because of a pervasive sense of worthlessness. It is almost as if you have judged yourself not worth saving. * GUILT - Lengthy periods of uncharitable self-examination seem to point fingers straight at you, the guilty one. You judge yourself mercilessly and find yourself not only wanting but guilty too. * IRRITABILITY - This is an outward expression of a feeling of restlessness that makes it impossible to find inner peace. * DEATH AND SUICIDE - Life seems no longer worth the effort and thoughts drift to a time when the anguish will finally end. SYMPTOMS: PHYSICAL * FATIGUE - General pervasive low level of energy. It becomes hard to move. * SLEEP - Either too much or too little. * WEIGHT - Loss or gain. Related to appetite. * ACHES AND PAINS - Anywhere in the body Depression, once identified, responds extremely well to treatment with the most successful regimen including both medication and therapy. |
pain Reply to this Comment I now understand why people with cronick pain think about or commit suicide i feel worthless, cant work because of the pain and i feel the doctors just think i am out for the drugs, i'm not i want to be pain free, i had back surgery dec.22, i dont know what to do. help Pain Reply to this Comment If you had back surgery in Dec, didn't they put you into physical rehab and give you something for pain? The physical therapy is very very important. The pain won't go away overnight. You also need a pain specialist. You may need opiates in your case. Chronic pain syndromes are very common. I myself have chronic pain and yes it is very depressing. So you also need an antidepressent and counselling. Hang in there, gee I hope this message gets through becuz I have a feeling I might as well be writing on the wall somewhere. Try to also get into a support group if you can't afford counselling...there are support groups on the internet also. Remember pain shared is pain lessened. Anxiety Reply to this Comment I have been having severe anxiety attacks and I already have been diagnosed with GAD and Depression. I have all of the symptoms of severe anxiety and my doctor will not listen to me! He put me on zoloft, than later, Lexapro. THEY ARENT WORKING. especially with all of the other things that have started happening (anxiety attacks and panic attacks). What would you recommend that I should be perscribed and or how i should be treated? I know someone who was going through the same thing but maybe a little bit less severe and he was perscribed klonopin than later lorazepam. He is now one of the happiest people I know. I understand that these drugs have a tendency to be addictive but I am not the type of personality to become addicted to such things. PLEASE someone help me. I'm falling apart. depression Reply to this Comment I am depressed. I got into a relationship with a married man who said they were getting divorced. He even moved in with me. He has kids and love them. He was not able to see them. He now has moved out trying to get back with his wife. I know I should have never got involved with him till it was final but hindsight well... I still love him and wasnt him. I can't move on. I just don't want to live anymore. What can I do? I can't stop loving him. My finace gave me STD'S THAT CAN'T BE CURED And I am depressed over the lifestyle change Reply to this Comment I feel in love with a wonderful man I thought was real with me. We fell in love very quick and I felt blessed to have him. Then one day he admitted he had Herpes/HPV. Who he contracted from an x-girl friend from college. I fell apart. I have been in an emotional battle with myself now for a year. I have a four month old baby and it's so hard to give her the love she needs, when I hate myself. I fell like life is no longer the same, I am trash, and the man who claims to love me could care less about comforting me. It seems he is more affraid to admit to this fact and deal with me when I become hopeless. I don't know how to deal with this and it makes me want to take my life. I get so sad when I think about what my life has become and I have no idea how to get past this. Today I thought long and hard, and I just think I need to go away for mental rehab and focus on myself for a while. I have to get right before I can be a wife or a mother. I need help to get past this and I am letting the cat out the bag this thanksgiving. I know something has to be done before I hurt myself and hurt my family more. IT'S GONNA BE OK Reply to this Comment AROUND TEN YRS AGO, I EXPERIENCED SOMETHING SIMILAR. I HAD CONTRACTED HERPES, I THOUGHT IT WAS THE END OF THE WORLD. FORTUNATELY I WENT TO A DOCTOR THAT TOLD ME BASICALLY IT'S A SKIN DISORDER, AND IT WILL FLARE UP FROM TIME TO TIME. NOT TO MAKE LIGHT OF IT, BUT THAT'S THE REALITY, YOU GET SOME PIMPLES THEN THEY GO AWAY, AND YOU CAN GO FOR YEARS WITHOUT ANY SYMPTOMS. I FORGAVE THE PERSON THAT PASSED IT TO ME AND TOLD THEM NOT TO EXPOSE ANYONE ELSE IN THE FUTURE. IT'S NOT HOW YOU FALL IT'S HOW YOU GET UP. YOUR BABY NEEDS YOU MORE THAN YOU NEED TO FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOUR NOT DIRTY, GOD KNOWS YOUR HEART SO FORGIVE, AND START LIVING AGAIN. YOU'LL BE FINE. I completely understand Reply to this Comment The same thing happened to me. I thought I was going to fall apart when I found out, too. I thought nobody would want to be with me. I was wrong. It's been almost 3 years and I'm not even sure I've broken out since the first flare up. In reality, Herpes is more common than you think. Seriously. It's just embarrassing to talk about, so people don't. I've actually been with other men whom I've told before we did anything and they said they also had it, they just had no intentions of telling me until I shared with them that I had it. Try not to dwell on it. If this is the biggest problem you've got in your life right now, I must say I am a little envious. Don't let it consume your life and who you are. It's going to be OK. I promise. You just need to accept it and move on with your life. im married but separated and in love with another man Reply to this Comment i have been married for about 7 yrs and for the past year my husband and i have been separated.(two children involved) The reason for our separation was because of him cheating and along with verbal abuse. A couple of months later i met through a mutual friend, a man of which i believe he is truly my soulmate. We have a lot of things in common and often share the same ideas and interest on things in life. in such a short period of time we both fell in love with each other. he know's about my situation and accepts me for who i am unlike my current husband. The only problem is this man i just met was incarsated for 6 yrs for narotics, currently living in a halfway house and everyone keeps telling me he is not the man for me and i should go back to my husband and work things out ....im in love with this man i just met and dont know what to do....in addition, my current husband wants to get back together and was released out the hospital because he almost had a heart attack due to stress. i cant understand because now that im involved with another man ,my husband wants to get back together. there is no chemistry anymore, all i feel for my husband is pity. what should i do...please help me niomi Reply to this Comment I definately think that you should not go back with your husband because he cheated on you. The verbal abuse is not healthy for you or your children. Their first role model is you. Make sure they learn what healthy relationships are, so when they are in a relationship someday, they will expect respect from their significant other and nothing less. You should put the children first always. And good for you because it seems like you did that because you did seperate. You are a strong person. Have faith in yourself and your choices. As far as the new guy that you fell in love with, I wouldn't jump into anything. Maybe just be independent and focus on yourself and your children. Finally be careful whom you bring around your children because there are a lot of crazy's out there. someone plz help Reply to this Comment am having trouble with stress and depression or something in between. I am a stay at home mom looking for working, going through a divorce, living on my own, never been on my own before im 22yrs old and i have 2 children 6 & 4yr old. My x-husband (divorce in progress) always informed me that i am worthless,useless, lazy, everyone did more for him then i ever did, compared me to his exs all the time. i do not do anything around the house, I find that someone telling me to do something sounds a lot easier than having me actually do it. It’s so easy for someone else to tell me to be happy with myself. How do I go about doing that? Where do I start? I want to stand on my own two feet, but I find myself relying on my ex-husband mainly because im not working right now, ive put in over 30 applications in less then 2 months and have had like maybe 4 job interviews, but im really trying as hard as I can, I need to live independently from him, I dont wanna have to call him for gas money, or help with my rent or other bills im on the verge of losing my place as it is because he may not be able to help me, you wondering about child support yes i have an active case well...i go for the hearing on the 15th of this month, WHAT CAN I DO! him & I do not get along at all we had a very abusive marriage all 5 years of it, and it ended badly now we both moved on with our lives but beings we have two kids our other halves dont like that we have to keep in touch cause of the kids im scared of losing my kids to such an abusive man that i play nice because i know him alone going on 30 dating an 18yr old makes my stomache churn, and skin crawl...i dunno what to do here yall...i was reading about the PTSD and its symptoms and ive had some of them happen and keep happening to me, then i had my best friend of 11 years tell me i think i should be diagnosed and put on anti-depressants or something and lately just seems like i flip out over stupid stuff and i mean i went off the other night screaming & crying just because my boyfriend wanted to leave cause we were having a fight i know it just triggered memories but i mean i dont wanna act like that SOMEONE...PLEASE HELP ME! 6:34 PM - 0 Comments - 0 Kudos A child who suffers from depression Reply to this Comment IDK when my depression started but i just wish there was some way things could changed. its so hard for me to even explain how I am feeling to others because they seem like they dont understand. but its like not feeling like I matter or life is pointless. I have only one reason to live and that is because of my God sister. or atleast it was. idk y im still here right now but i want to change so bad im willing to do anything to be happy again. you can do it Reply to this Comment Don't mess ur life up and those who love you by doing something so out there that you lose your life or anything. just focus on making you happy. just like you thought he was a great guy you WILL find a great guy that will be true to you and only yours well... Reply to this Comment how much money do you need? I'm an insanely nice girl and I have a completely disposable income. I could make a big donation if it would impact your life positively. :) I guess you could say I want to make an impact on people's lives during my own time on this earth. Your situation sounds like an opportunity for me. depression Reply to this Comment am on antidepressants and anti anxiety drugs but still feel sad and nervous--what to do???? Im in your shoes Reply to this Comment My husband and I separated almost 3yrs ago. We aren't divorced yet. However, I also fell deeply in love with a man who has had a troubled life and has been in prison twice, second time he violated his probation. It's been two years now, my kids love him, Im still So in love with him. Now Im faced with him getting in trouble with the law again. He is facing time. He has been gone in a co. jail for a year now awaiting trial. Im hoping for his release, due to inconclusive evidence against him. These charges are of not what he has been introuble for before. If I had to do it over again I would, because he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. However, the pain has been the hardest I have ever endured in my life! Im getting divorced so we can marry! I don't know what you should do, but I know love is a powerful thing! It endures all things! I hope it works out for you! death of a child Reply to this Comment how do you deal with the loss of a child that was your whole world.My child went out with friends (Good kids)and did not come home alive. depression & me Reply to this Comment When i started to read this it made me think of well pretty much how i end up feeling everyday. Nothing ever seems right in my life i wake up a million times a night and am restless irritable especially with my close loved ones. I at some point in each day feel worthless. Something makes my day bad at somepoint everyday wheather it is something wrong as in pain or not feeling well or money ..or just feeling sad and completely alone in this world. Every day i wake up i know there will be something to make my day bad in some way. I don't remember the last time i was "happy".......... | ||||||||
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By:puddy Posted: Apr 11 2007 10:14:26 PM