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Group homes have a lot to offer troubled teens. At present there are no generally accepted definitions in the field for “group homes” and “group residences.” In time these terms have come to apply that there are many different types of group living structures for children who indicate delinquent behaviors. Presumably the outcome in a residential program will show good progress in performance from the child, due to what the program has done with and for the child.
The following are some ideas that one may want to consider when looking for a group home: will the group home provide the proper therapy that is needed for the child? Is the group home licensed as a specialty boarding school, with therapeutic values? Is the staff properly licensed and trained in the group home facility? How many children are housed in the facility? One should always go to the group home and walk through the facility before making a placement of a child. It also helps to ask for references from other group homes or parents who have used the group home for their own child. One should discuss the idea of a group home with the entire family. This helps in making an educated decision on if the group home is the right facility for the troubled child. There might be other options for the child, so check out more than one idea on how to deal with the particular problems facing them. This is a big life changing decision for the family as well as the adolescent so it is imperative that one do as much investigation as possible so that the parents can feel comfortable in getting the help needed for the family. The cost of a group home can be quite expensive. Much of the cost depends on what type of treatment that the troubled youth needs. Some group homes can cost as much as $ 30,000.00 to $ 50,000.00 dollars per year. The cost can be quite daunting but don’t get too discouraged because there are insurance companies and policies that help pay for treatment. Sometimes there are state funded programs that help defer the cost. Most good group homes have insurance options. One can also contact the state and local governments that have subsidy programs which help offset the cost of group homes. There are also church and local groups such as the lions club or rotary clubs that make donations to group homes for families in need. The question is, how much help does the child need and is a group home going to be the best option? If the child needs to be removed from the elements and environment in order to protect their safety, then the money becomes a secondary factor. If the child needs to be put in a more positive, supportive environment then get the help needed. Usually a payment plan can be worked out with the facility. Most group homes have financing through banks and other lending institutions. Group homes can help the child to develop new ideas and become a better person so don’t let money get in way. Group homes and group programs have been around for along time. Some examples are: The Boys Club, Girls Scouts, Boy Scouts, halfway houses (not so much today), and training schools. We can review the ideas of group homes from the 1900’s, where the idea of developing aftercare for our youth while using a direct care agency was formulated in lieu of institutions and foster care. Group homes can be misleading; if you look at the term “institution for dependent children” you legitimize the placing of the child. The courts may classify these group homes by saying dependent, neglected, or delinquent, but these classifications do not describe their needs or their psychosocial functioning. All normal children have problem areas in their lives. Since we are discussing the children who are placed in care facilities or who need placement in a group home, it seems necessary to distinguish the psychosocial and diagnostic variables. There are three forms of group care for the normal child, 1- foster care 2- group homes 3- child care centers or dependency institutions. All three of these modalities have given valuable services to children. The utilization of these modalities for normal children depends on the age of the child. Ages three through six are in need of different care than those that are twelve to sixteen years of age. If the child is in a good environment between the ages of three and six, there is hope that the child will change for the better. Once the child becomes a preteen or teenager, it becomes more difficult to change their behaviors. Here is some information on teens that live in group homes. Most group homes accommodate fifteen to twenty children. There seems to be a therapeutic component to a group home program. There is also an education service taught so that the child does not get behind in school. Most group homes are residential so that the child can be removed from negative influences, such as peer pressures or negative activities with other siblings. When looking at group homes don’t assume that the home includes group therapy, twelve step programs, or schooling. There are group homes that forget that they are there for the children and become warehouses for delinquent children. When presenting a thorough philosophy of group home care we see that it does not come easy and can be quite expensive, but if it is a good group home, it is well worth the expense and will have long lasting benefits and results. The family and child, along with the community, will see the value in the ever vast problem of juvenile rehabilitation. References Joseph L. Taylor. Jerome L. Singer, Harriet Goldstein, Margret O. Tsaltasw. Elaine Kasowski. A Program of the Association for Jewish Children of Philadelphia. Child welfare League of America, Inc.1976 Morris Fritz Mayer. Leon H. Richman. Edwin A. Balcerzak. Child welfare League of America Group Care of Children Crossroads and Transitions. 1977 http://www.nautinfo1.com/term.php?id=1 http://www.familyfirstaid.org/student_info_.htm |
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I was in a group home Reply to this Comment When I was 14, I was placed in the NYC's custody. I signed myself out at 18 because I became pregnant and wanted to prevent a cycle with my child. Every group home is different. The bad thing is the education. Children in group homes need educated people working in as counselors and the counselors need better pay so that they can stay. Counselors are trained before entering a group home to restrain a child if needed. However, counselors should be edcuated about the mind of a child. They should be required to enroll in college and take two courses, a child psychology course and an early childhood course. This will help them to better understand children and possibly how to deal with them. better way brighter day Reply to this Comment i to lived in a group home and made it my life dream to start my own for those who think it's bad that is the out come you will recieve please believe things will only get better!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh and please post more info to starting one on this site thanx tired Reply to this Comment okay.. but like i was saying two comments above, at the age of 11 i was babysitting my brother. we lived in a fucked up trailer park with nothing but junkies and alcoholics. so life wasnt great. but i made the best of it and i was a good student still. then my mother found a new man and we moved to a shitty trailor in the middle of nowhere. we didnt have a phone or internet or cable or anything. then in april of 2005 the trailor burnt down because of all the heat lamps in the house from the marijuana growing. i lost the one thing i was close to.. my dog. no one would help us.. i really found who my true friends were. my school paid for a week in a hotel room. thats about all the help we got. then i moved in with my dad who used to be highly addicted to pain killers and opiates. but 7 years ago him and his bitch of a wife made the decision to commit to a methadone treatment which did stop the addiction to the pills, but they're (still to this day) very addicted to methadone. anyways.. i lived with him for about a year in a school that i actually liked. he lives in a messy trailer also. and their addiction overwhelmed me. soon after i started smoking pot & drinking A LOT. i was getting really bad grades.. failing just about every class. (so now im a sophomore and have 3.5 credits & i need 24 by senior year if i wanna graduate with my class) so over the summer of 2006 i moved back in with my mom who seemed to be more stable. she is a VERY hard person to live with because shes highly bipolar and has bad adult attention defiect. so we faught ALL THE TIME. about 2 months ago i got kicked out for being "rude & inconsiderate of other people's feelings". i got kicked out about 4 times in a 2 weeks. then about 3 weeks ago.. i ran away. i just walked out because i couldnt deal with all the stress and pressure of trying to be perfect and making everyone else happy. i couldnt even make myself happy, let alone make other people happy. so i lived at my dads for the first weekend i ran away (cuz my mom picked me up & brought me there) and then i moved in with my 13 yr old sister and her grandmother. which was very good. but my mom had to know EVERYTHING. where i was going and she is sooo dramatic that my sisters grandmother couldnt deal with it anymore. so i had a meeting with my mom and grandmother and Sweetser.. which is a troubled teens place. and it was a 4 hour meeting. so i stayed at gram's for the weekend and then went back to school monday. then i've stayed with my aunt ever since and i really like it here. but i still have to get a case worker and they think i have bipolar disorder. so they're gona put me on a trial medication to see if it helps. so yeah.. any advice? *sigh* tired Reply to this Comment wow, girlfriend your life sounds really f'd up..meth has so many people hooked on it, my sister for 13yrs and i think it's had my brother for about the past year, but he's kinda good at hiding it because he lives in another state..i'm 39 now, i lived in foster care for 5 1/2yrs, my mom and dad both were heavy drinkers, he beat her...she didnt care about us after they split, neither did he...left home at 16 because all the drama...got pregnant...BIG ADVICE..get on birth control, no matter what, or use protection, you think your life is hard now, single ,young and pregnant..not good,way harder. i had a bad home life..but when i became an adult i had the ability to change what happens to me and i didnt blame where i came from or my messed up home life, i made something of myself and wanted something good out of life and i made that happen with the decisions i made..you can be anything you want to be, you may not be able to control what happens to you now..but when you get older dont blame your bad home life on not having anything in life..make what you want to happen ...happen...dream big and follow those dreams... my sister getting kicked out Reply to this Comment My sister is living with the boys and gils club and my be kicked out because of something someone said and know she is a foster child she is still going to school and she won't have anywere so if anyone has any info about a safe place to live till she can afourd a place of her own can u contact me at KellyClarkson_21@Hotmail.com GETTING STARTED Reply to this Comment MY WIFE AND I ARE CONSIDERIND OPENING A GROUP HOME....I WOULD APPERCIATE ANY ADVISE ON GETTING STARTED.... Me life doesnt seem to get any better? Reply to this Comment Im about to be 17 in a couple of days. I live in a small townin up state ny. i never met my dad tilli was 8 and started using drugs with him when i was 13, my life has seems worthless ever since!!! i failed the 6th grade and i have been to 5 rehabs, 2 of them were longterms. I've been arressted 2 times an di threatened cops. Just recently i was 15 min late and my judge wants to bring me back to court to violate my condictional dischage for it. I try so hard and nothing ever changes. I got out of a rehab in Nov. 2006 and i now have 9 months and some change clean. im not using and they piss test me every week so its not like i could try to either. But they wont give me a break. I feel like im going insane!!! im on meds for my bipolar and depression and p.t.s.d! nothing helps, i even go to couseling. Me and my mom argueing allllll the time. we've told eachother we hate one another, but i dont. i love my mom but she helps too much i just want to do thing differently then her and it not working so they want to place me agian. I dont get it.. what to do??? HELP ME!!! me emial is cherishedhottie_2003@yahoo.com if anyone has any adive at all... im all up for it!!!! i need somewhere 2 go Reply to this Comment i hate where i am at i have tried for 4 years i ran away from home 4 or 5 times i have tried drugs gangs guns and i rap but i need a different home to work in if any 1 has any info send it at tzaballa@aol.com plezze im beggin' i cant take it any more i need somewhere 2 go Reply to this Comment i hate where i am at i have tried for 4 years i ran away from home 4 or 5 times i have tried drugs gangs guns and i rap but i need a different home to work in if any 1 has any info send it at tzaballa@aol.com plezze im beggin' i cant take it any more teens Reply to this Comment hello everyone my name is andrew my situation is similiar to jessis. from early on i can remember my father and mother both abusing alcohol and prescription drugs. i can remember being in a tug a war with both of them as they fought who has me and my brother, my dad hiding us from my mother in a hotel till court. seeing my mom in and out of mental health hospitals getting a phone call from police saying that she tried to commit suicide.my father remarrying a horrible and manipulating wife that controls every aspect in his life including me and my brother well being. switching from school to schools and house to house several times. seeing my mom manipulate doctors into prescribing her adderall even though she does not have ADD or ADHD. seeing my mother not being able to keep a steady job. struggling financially all the time. dealing with domestic violence so badly that cops have to come and stop it. i am not close with both my parents just recently i tried to reconnect with my dad from which i hadnt seen in 5 years. when i moved in with him it after about 6 months it started getting bad already. the end result in that was getting kicked out because i refused to take the medications and respecting my setepmother.Having to deal with thoughts of suicide and hopelessness. i think parents need to understand that sending your kids to counselor and psychologist to deal with there problems is not the only solution,it only makes them more angry and resentful of you. sure sometimes it works with some teens but it didnt for me. having to deal with being labeled and diagnosed with illnesses and disorders that you dont have like pstd,bipolar. parents think that shoving medications down there kids throat works. it doesnt for me it didnt help i was still angry at both of them im at a time of my life that ive realized the only waty im gonna move my life along is if i do it myself seeing as my father doesnt care for me and my mom basically is a prescribtion druggy and wasting her life away on dumb men that use her. having no support from anyone except your friends is hard. i am turning 17 soon i am only a sophmore in highschool i am very behind right now, thats only because of not being stable and moving around all the time and not being financially stable. i plan to try and still graduate. all i can say is dont give up even when you feel so hopeless. try and ride it out till you can leave cause running away doesnt work trust me if you cant financially support yourself it doesnt work. and from what i hear being put in a group home sucks really bad. rehab is worse too having to be surrounded by depressing people all the time 24/7 filling out sheets on how your doing today mood etc. being forced to take medicine. another thing that is so corrupt about rehab centers for teens is that all the kids when i was there were prescribed mood stabalizers i looked up the medicine and it was for psychopaths im like wtf. i did research on it and found out that they give it to you to calm you down. so you dont act to hostile. and thats true when i was there everyone was in a kinda bored depressing zombie mood. It helped a little because it showed me that i shouldnt give up i have 1 year to go then i can officially leave and be on my own. i also think that most social workers,counselors,and psychologist dont really care about what you tell them at all. they just wanna get there paycheck every two weeks. all i see them doing is scribbling on there yellow pad. they do not help teens at all all they do is reccomend things to parents. i know my comment sounds kind of typical teenager but im not as literate as allota of you guys on here. this message board is a good place for teens to read my story is very incomplete here that was only a little rice grain of all the troubles in my life. i shouldnt complain some kids have it way worse. Group home response Reply to this Comment Without identifying the name of the group home that you were released from. Could you tell me what were some of the things that troubled you while you were there? I am doing research regarding starting my own group home. I would hate to see any teen leave my group home feeling like it didn't improve them in some way. your wrong Reply to this Comment I just got out of a residental group home the only thing i learn was how to fight, cheat, lie, and steal more efficiently and i have a burning hatred towards my parents. Before you dumbfucks think about sending your kid off how about you think about how you would like it. How To Start A Group Home? Reply to this Comment I watch a program twice a week about foster kids. I would love to help them by starting a group home, but i have no idea of where to start. I wanted to know what is the process of starting a group home. Group Homes Reply to this Comment I am 21 and I was a foster child and lived in a group home too...I believe most people have good intentions when they say they love children and want to help them...I am also very interested in starting a group home in Ohio! I have a Business Degree so far...What else do I need educational wise...? Group Homes Reply to this Comment Jessi: I hope everything works out for you...I've had a hard life too...I could give tons of depressing stories.. I am 21 now and still think about my past of being in foster care, group homes, and a mental institution too....Don't let your past get you down! You are the writer to your own life, so choose a happy story. It is easier said than done, I can attest to that...But trust me, stay positive and everything will turn out right...Good Luck! HELP Reply to this Comment All my life I've been hurt and neglected. No one really cared for me. My mom was a druggie and my dad was never there. My grandma took care of me but one day decided that she had to much and put me up for adoption. I was never a bad kid and I’m still not messed up after all of these years. I ended up being adopted with my little sister but it wasn’t for the better. Since the day that I was adopted 9 years ago my life has been a living HELL. My “mom” wish’s I was never born she hurts and abuses me and my little sister rubs the good life that she got in my face. My “father” pretends that he can’t see what’s going on. I’m almost sixteen and am tired of it. If anyone can give me any information about group homes or help center that could get me away from here it would be greatly appreciated. Hurt Reply to this Comment All my life I've been hurt and neglected. No one really cared for me. My mom was a druggie and my dad was never there. My grandma took care of me but one day decided that she had to much and put me up for adoption. I was never a bad kid and I’m still not messed up after all of these years. I ended up being adopted with my little sister but it wasn’t for the better. Since the day that I was adopted 9 years ago my life has been a living HELL. My “mom” wish’s I was never born she hurts and abuses me and my little sister rubs the good life that she got in my face. My “father” pretends that he can’t see what’s going on. I’m almost sixteen and am tired of it. If anyone can give me any information about group homes or help center that could get me away from here it would be greatly appreciated. Too much structure- not enough LOVE Reply to this Comment I worked at a group home as a house parent for almost 2 yrs. It was a much better group home than a lot of these other homes sound but still had their problems. I think everyone has good intentions starting out but somewhere down the line you get bombarded by all the rules that come with licensing. Yes these kids need structure but more than anything they need to be loved. To anyone considering starting a group home let me offer this advice... think family. Structure this home as much as a "normal" family as possible. Not staff- parents. Not dorms- bedrooms. Not a cafeteria- a kitchen and a dining room. Keep it small and personal and love 'em to pieces and someday... they'll love you back. When rules start preventing you from loving these kids, you are doing something horribly wrong. breecan2@texascellnet.com Touched Reply to this Comment I am very touched when reading the stories of the young woman, who were reaching out for help, but then was placed in a home, where the love is not the same as being loved by your parents. I was there was a way that I could help all the teens that are hurting for some reason. Right now all I could do is be a friend and listen to your cries. Lend a word of encouragement. Some of the group homes forget, that the young woman are hurting and need the attention and love, they so badly desire. Showing them that there is more to life than having sex, drugs, fighting, being angry,teen mom, and trying to be tough. The world is full of wonderful things to accomplish in life, that is all they (young woman) should be thinking about. I to all the beautiful woman of this site, stay strong and believe that God can help you through anything. Take care. Group Homes Reply to this Comment I work in a group home. I try my best to help everyone there. I constantly think up fresh new ideas for therapeutic activities. I put my all into my work. While ther may be some Group Homes that don't do what they say they will there are somne that do. There are still people who do ALL they can to help the kids/youth in group homes... I am ONE of them. | ||||||||
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By:Senora Posted: Feb 27 2007 12:28:59 PM